Getting There… Organization Update

An update on the house cleaning/purge – which might be boring for you to read, but will make me feel so much better to have it written down. If you are short on time (or just can’t handle how ridiculously organized I am becoming), scroll down to the bottom of the page at just read the last paragraph or two as I saved the best for last.

I did join the Fly Lady community, and have been taking baby steps at getting a cleaning routine in place. They send out an email every day with reminders of what section of the house you are to be working on that week, and your task for the day. And to my surprise, I have often recently done exactly what the task was… which means I’m not really staying on task for what they say I should be doing, but I am doing stuff… just in a different order. That makes me feel pretty good!

I have organized my en-suite completely – top to bottom. For those of you have have had the horror privilege of using this bathroom in my home, well, you know it tended to be the last room that would get cleaned. Which really sucked because it is the first and last room I use every day. And it is tiny, tiny! Like, Darren and I can’t both fit in there at the same time to brush our teeth together (unless one of us stands sideways). So, you might be wondering, how hard could that have been to clean? It took me HOURS! Not because it was so dirty (although it was pretty neglected), but there was just so much junk beneath the sink, in the baskets beneath, beneath the sink (it’s an old house), and in the medicine cabinet. I guess when you have less space, it’s harder to organize. Regardless, that room is successfully staying very clean and organized now and I don’t have to cringe when someone has a reason to use it. YAY!!

I have gone through my bedroom from top to bottom. The closet (again TINY – but so messy from lack of space… and your husband owns a closet organizer company you say? Don’t go there…), all our dressers and drawers… I think the only thing left is my nightstand drawer which will take me 5 min. Something I have discovered is; that now that everything has a place, I don’t get so stressed out when my room gets messy – because it only takes me a few minutes to put things back where they belong. Before, there were so many things in my room that didn’t belong there that it just felt overwhelming.

Our basement storage room – I have gone through every single box. I switched a lot of items from one storage room to another and now have all the girl’s clothing in one room. The items for Giselle that Amara has outgrown, and the clothes for Amara that I have collected on sale for when she is older. I even have a clothes hanger for next season’s items which allows me to see at a glance how many of a particular item they have for this summer, and what they might still need. I still have work to do in the storage rooms, but they have come a long way!

Yikes!

it's hard to see here, but that middle shelf is sagging in the middle

 

I organized my pantry yesterday. I was so excited about the baskets I bought at Cost*co  that I just HAD to organize something, so the pantry fell prey to my mad skills. Also, my bookcase is now completely organized down to labels on boxes.

And last but not least… the HUGEST burden on my mind the last few months – actually since our renovation last summer, has been all the trim on my main floor still needing to be painted. I just couldn’t figure out how to manage it with the kids around. So, I humbled myself and asked for help. Rebekah and a few other friends were AMAZING and painted our house while/after the renovation last summer, but the trim wasn’t finished until last minute so they didn’t get to paint that. I asked her if she would PLEASE come help me with the trim, and she so kindly came today and helped me. Actually I helped her. As much as I could. While I corralled children, finished making lunch, drove Kylar to his gymnastics, and put Amara down for her nap I managed to get some time to work with her, but through it all she just steadily kept going. During Amara’s nap we ate lunch, then back to work… and we got two coats of paint on all the trim except the living room baseboard which will be really easy for me to do on my own. What a humongous blessing! This one thing has been just a nagging weight and it is gone! Done! She didn’t like how the hallway was painted so she and her sister in law are coming next week to do it again – which is also a huge blessing because I decided to change the colour and now they will paint it the new colour – and I don’t have to worry about how to paint it while keeping little fingerprints out of it. YAY!! Thanks so much Bekah! Plus we had great chats all day – this young women inspires me every time I’m with her.

I still have a long way to go, but I feel encouraged at the progress so far. I do have this nagging fear of getting everything done and ready, then Giselle’s file takes a REALLY long time to get through the next stage and I will go crazy with nothing to occupy my mind in the waiting. Silly me. I’ll be running around trying to KEEP the house organized until she comes and it all falls to ruins again. I can’t wait!

A Post To Delay Dishwashing Time

It’s 9:00 pm, I finally tucked the last child in bed and I should be lugging all the dishes from the past 2 days downstairs to my laundry tub to wash them by hand. I still don’t have a kitchen counter-top which means no kitchen sink and no dishwasher. While it is a pain, I honestly can’t complain… there are so many tragic things happening in our world right now that complaining about no running water in my kitchen just seems ridiculous. BUT, I will probably kiss my sink and dishwasher when they are working again (hopefully this weekend?).

Kylar has been at VBS all week, so Amara and I have been having some quality girl time. I have enjoyed it so much! Today we went to play at a park and enjoyed a picnic lunch. She treated me to 3.5 hours of quiet time while she napped, then we went to the farmer’s market and did some shopping in the afternoon. It is fun to see her growing up and being able to enjoy excursions with her as she is listening and cooperating more often.

I recently bought a program by Nancy Thomas called “Taming the Tiger While it is Still a Kitten” which is a program recommended to me by a good friend for attachment therapy for Giselle. It is intense therapy, but I have heard many good things about it. In her program she recommends some reading such as “The Happiest Toddler On The Block” by Harvey Karp. I’m in the middle of his book but the jury is still out.  There are some good pointers, but so far I honestly can’t see myself implementing this in public. Has anyone else read it? I also happened to pick up “The No-Cry Separation Anxiety Solution” by Elizabeth Pantley (author of “The No-Cry Sleep Solution”. I’ve only started it, but I’m hoping for some good ideas that would allow us to (a) finally be able to leave Amara in Sunday School without one of us staying there with her, (b) perhaps be able to leave her with a friend or two for a few hours if necessary when I leave again for Haiti.

Alright, enough with the boring post… I’ll go do dishes now.

Just Saying…

That if you decide to treat you and your husband to a coffee at 6:30pm on a Friday night before a very busy weekend, you should probably not trust the barista when she says she will make you a caffeine-free latte.


You could just possibly be tossing and turning in bed until 3 am composing blog posts in your head.

All the while wondering how (if) you will get up before 8:00 to go to that 1 and a half hour abs/zumba class the next morning.

Just saying…

Ode to Toe

I sincerely apologize, my dear little toe. I have never appreciated the importance of the work you do, or how much abuse you go through in any given day.


Since I accidentally stubbed you on the coffee table 3 weeks ago, I have come to realize that it really is important for you to be in good health so that I can wear actual shoes – not the flip-flops or “heaven forbid”, crocs that I have had to resort to wearing – regardless of the weather.

Not only that, but never in a million years would I have realized how many times you get stepped on, stomped on, and run over by children and dog in any given day. Who knew that Amara runs over you and tends to grind her heal into you (sending me through the roof squealing with pain) on a fairly consistent basis.

I really am sorry.

Now that I have come to appreciate all your hard work, can you please, please heal up already? Snow will fly any day now and I really can’t imagine the horror of having to buy those fleece lined crocs to wear out in public. Actually, even those would hurt. Do you really want to be exposed to snow in flip-flops? Really, it’s best for both of us if you just quit pouting and heal already.

XOXO